Isn't Life Great?

I am developing a sweet, tender relationship with a younger gal who has become precious to me. 

 In our walk through life, we are occasionally offered the opportunity to be incredibly real, letting down the protective devices formed as children. I have a lot of those protections.

 My friend and I are both on a healing journey and we are doing a portion of that journey together. 

 Grateful that I am ready for this, dealing with past pains and taking responsibility for the things I have done that have harmed others, being vulnerable, being utterly honest and know that there will be no judgement. 

 I do this with some unease but with joy. 

 1, 2, 3.....here we go......

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  1. anne marie in phillyJanuary 27, 2020 at 3:37 AM

    you can help this young woman by showing her your STRENGTH and that past hurts CAN be overcome. she is lucky to have you as a guide.

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  2. Marie SmithJanuary 27, 2020 at 8:37 AM

    Life is great. Enjoy the journey!

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  3. JeanieJanuary 27, 2020 at 8:59 AM

    There is something very profound and special about embarking on a journey of healing with a trusted friend. May you always be there for one another.

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  4. My life so farJanuary 29, 2020 at 6:01 AM

    I like young people. They have so much time and hope and energy. I've been spending time with my 22 year old niece and deeply enjoying it.

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