Battle On

In general, my man is a pussycat.

He's on the feminism bandwagon and is finding his way in the LGBTQIA world, just as I am. I've enjoyed watching him grow.

But there is one place where toxic masculinity still rules......IN BED.

When I say "In Bed", what I mean is that that man, in all his strength and prowess, lets the bed know, in no uncertain terms, who is master. He wrestles her, he clashes and, finally, he dominates that poor bed into submission. The nightly battle teaches the bed who is master and each morning it is I who has to comfort the bed's bruised ego, retuck her corners, put the pillowcases back where they belong and straighten her out. I let her know I'll be there for her when she needs me. Poor gal.....she is practically brand new but already I feel she is giving up.

Damn Men!


ps. Tongue in cheek. I know toxic masculinity is not a joke

pss. I've missed you all. Working girl is figuring out a new balancing act.

Comments

  1. Debra She Who SeeksMay 14, 2022 at 10:13 AM

    Does he have vivid dreams to thrash about so much?

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  2. NewRobin13May 14, 2022 at 11:17 AM

    He really does teach that bed who is the boss. That was very funny to read. It's great to see a post here and hope you figure out how to post more often. Take care thee.

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  3. Marie SmithMay 14, 2022 at 1:37 PM

    I am happy to read you again, Linda. And glad that all is well except for the bed’s bruised ego…er, springs!

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  4. JeanieMay 14, 2022 at 7:27 PM

    Missed you too! Duck and cover!

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