It can be hard to put my whole self out there. It can be hard to know who I am in some situations. When someone from the past asks about child #3, they will say things like, How is Prescott doing? How’s he liking England or Portland or his work etc. When that happens now, because everyone important or close has been told, I have to dig deep. Who am I in this situation? Do I just say, “SHE”, and go on with the conversation as if it is nothing big? It is big! Do I smile wide and say “oh, she’s in the process of transitioning”, without going into anything else. Do I let them ask questions? Do I know how to answer? This is her personal journey. I am a bystander, a caring one, but bystander just the same. Do I avoid the subject completely and just be careful with pronouns so that I am not disloyal. If I am avoiding, am I being disloyal? Maybe they haven’t earned the right to hear her story. There is a protective defensiveness that I have to be aware of too. My feelings are still comple...
A worthy memorial I have not heard of before.
ReplyDeleteI am happy to hear there is a memorial such as this for those brave journalists.
ReplyDelete"when the rhetoric being spewed by some world leaders makes the lives of journalists everywhere more precarious than they already are."
ReplyDeleteTruer words never spoken.
Thank you Linda, this was moving
Sad truth today. Reporters are not safe in the world. Thanks for sharing Linda.
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